Marriage is much harder than I thought it would be. It turns out Bowie girl was looking to locate a person - specifically her ex! She didn't tell me about it, I just found out (not going to tell you how I tried not to think about this because what does it matter? We're married anyway and have planned a trip to go visit her parents in June. That should be alright. It's hard to hide that I'm really hurt inside that she would try to contact an old boyfriend. I know I shouldn't be and that it's stupid to let one silly little thing fester inside but I'm a festering sort of person I guess. It would be really easy for me to use a peoplefinder and look up an ex-girlfriend. But I won't because it's not worth it to think like that. I'm going to forget this stupid snit by buying Bowie girl something really nice, maybe some stylish frames online? We're married now, I need to put these things behind me.