Andrew's space

Visiting Bowie Girl's parents was a blast. They also worried that I wasn't eating a lot. (It was just because I was so nervous!) But they were worried that it was metabolic syndrome, so now they got me taking all these extra special vitamins and stuff. Nice, but not so nice. Anyway, haven't needed to people search in a while, but you might!

In T Minus 2 days, we're heading out to meet Bowie girl's parents. I haven't been eating much the past few days, so she's convinced I have an eating disorder after reading orthorexia makes me nervosa. I think she's just freaking out too. I thought about doing a people finder search on them just to have some background info, but this is a rare case where I guess it's best to be surprised. I just hope that my wife's parents share my passion to find a person from their past so we have something in common.

Marriage is much harder than I thought it would be. It turns out Bowie girl was looking to locate a person - specifically her ex! She didn't tell me about it, I just found out (not going to tell you how I tried not to think about this because what does it matter? We're married anyway and have planned a trip to go visit her parents in June. That should be alright. It's hard to hide that I'm really hurt inside that she would try to contact an old boyfriend. I know I shouldn't be and that it's stupid to let one silly little thing fester inside but I'm a festering sort of person I guess. It would be really easy for me to use a peoplefinder and look up an ex-girlfriend. But I won't because it's not worth it to think like that. I'm going to forget this stupid snit by buying Bowie girl something really nice, maybe some stylish frames online? We're married now, I need to put these things behind me.

Married life has been, well...different. Heh. I love my wife and all (wow, I can't believe I just typed "wife") but things aren't exactly how I imagined things would be going when we got married. Do I like being married to the Bowie girl? Yeah..I think I do. Things are just kinda weird right now. Like, we've been doing our own things this past week instead of being in that "honeymoon" phase people always talk about. I dunno. Is that normal? I guess I'll just have to wait and see what happens with us. Hehe. I think it'll turn out okay in the end. Hope so anyway. I'm still getting those urges to find people now every now and then, which might be a bad sign. And the other day I saw Bowie girl was using an address find website, and she had been looking up this dude's name. I wonder if he's an old boyfriend or something. Augh, thinking about this isn't healthy. I'm gonna go read about finding people and building a family tree instead. I just hope I have a family some time...

Haha yep, we got married in Vegas, baby! We were listening to the Swingers soundtrack the entire way there and just blabbing and quoting the film like true nerds. It was great. And no, Elvis didn't marry us. It was a real preacher or whatever you call them. Our witnesses were two homeless dudes. It was pretty crazy! I still haven't told my parents of course. What am I gonna do? Who knows, who cares, I got my Bowie girl baby! You should look for one too. Try people serch, just like I did. It's a pretty good people finder. It lets you search for people in mcuh the same way as I did when I found my Bowie girl. Oh and last time I showed you how to find a mentor, now see about finding a therapist.